She n i get along ok but im writing not aabout her byt about her relationship. Since i met her all she could talk about is her bf. He does this he does that. Sometimes it was sickening, sometimes it was adorable, sometimes it was enviable bcuz my own relationship at that time was mess. She answered the phone hey bb and u cud totally tell when he saw her he lit up. So he's for the sake of anonymity, a bricklayer and she's a msc student. And i had my doubts, eeeeeeeeeh really, wud it work? Convos revolved around the same issue. I stayed out of it because who am I to speak to someone about what makes them happy. Fastforward to this semester, they're done. Why? Because he doesnt understand how stressful it is to do both a msc and a relationship and has been demanding the same level of attention b4 she began the degree. So i hear my aunt in my head (who is single btw) saying u can only be fulfilled in a relationship if you and ur pathner are equally yolked. On the same playing field. Have the same level of ambitions. And i wonder if it is true. Could a ceo happily and etenrally marry a garbage man? Or is it just a matter of pride that gets in the way. *KANYE SHRUG*
Showing posts with label dating. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dating. Show all posts
Sunday, April 3, 2011
Compatibility
She n i get along ok but im writing not aabout her byt about her relationship. Since i met her all she could talk about is her bf. He does this he does that. Sometimes it was sickening, sometimes it was adorable, sometimes it was enviable bcuz my own relationship at that time was mess. She answered the phone hey bb and u cud totally tell when he saw her he lit up. So he's for the sake of anonymity, a bricklayer and she's a msc student. And i had my doubts, eeeeeeeeeh really, wud it work? Convos revolved around the same issue. I stayed out of it because who am I to speak to someone about what makes them happy. Fastforward to this semester, they're done. Why? Because he doesnt understand how stressful it is to do both a msc and a relationship and has been demanding the same level of attention b4 she began the degree. So i hear my aunt in my head (who is single btw) saying u can only be fulfilled in a relationship if you and ur pathner are equally yolked. On the same playing field. Have the same level of ambitions. And i wonder if it is true. Could a ceo happily and etenrally marry a garbage man? Or is it just a matter of pride that gets in the way. *KANYE SHRUG*
Friday, September 19, 2008
Todays day
Ok emmy jus asked me to hook him up on someone. Not difficult but says a lot about our friendship. At one point in time i thought i had a crush on him. He's a great guy, not horrible looking but no Jude Law (ooh baby)
So onto looking i will, any good girls, 22 and under, reading this, willing to date a guy in canada mssg me. Ok onto topic number 2 of the day, relationships and great sex. Yesterday B stayed home and i was priveledged enuff to geta day of mind blowing sex followed by dinner. Yeah we not together, but hey I dont kno, Its not no strings attached or, all emotions barred but to me and to him i guess it means something but lets get down 2 bizness. Ok yah, simma says she gonna stay celibate till she's married and i keep wondering if she knows what she's gettin hersel into cuz thats a humongous risk. He could be small, be impotent, be selfish, be domineering and all those factors. I for one am glad that i didnt wait
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